Web Page No 2682
1st May 2020
1st Picture. Place
setting
3rd Picture. Pickle fork
4th Picture. Kensitas
Cigarettes
Eating
at home.
One thing that my family
always set great store by was good table manners. Come a main meal we all sat around
the dining room table and ate together. The table would be set with a table
cloth (with matching napkins on Sundays) decorative place mats, cutlery,
condiments and sauces, tomato and/or HP or Daddies along with Colemans mustard.
If the meal was to be cold meat, this was often on a Monday when mother used up
the remainder of the Sunday Roast Joint, there would always be a dish of home
cooked beetroot, a jar of Pan Yan Pickle or assorted pickles with pickle forks on
the table as well. We all had our regular set places to sit with fathers being at
the head.
First of all came the
call by my mother from the kitchen ‘Have you washed your hands and face?’ so it
was a journey upstairs to the bathroom to undertake the obligatory wash and
brush up before eating. Having done so I came down and sat in my appointed
place and waited for my meal to be served. Eating with one’s fingers was
certainly a real no no in our house that’s what the cutlery was for, we even
had fish knives and forks for any sea-based dish, which was normally just once
a week. I think these were family heirlooms from some distant relative. I do
not remember glasses on the table even water glasses but they may have been
there. We never said Grace at the table before or after a meal in our house but
it was clearly understood that no one started eating until every diner had all
sat down and was ready to eat.
Once I had completed my first
course, I always had to place my knife and fork together on the plate to
indicate that I had finished. Then came the pudding or afters, apple crumble
and custard, fruit pie or maybe rice or macaroni pudding or even a milk jelly and
again the rule of placing the cutlery neatly on the plate when I had finished
applied. I then had to wait until everyone at the table had finished eating before
I could ask if I could leave the table. This I was told was just good manners.
Conversation was always
very stilted at these meals as we understood that you did not talk with food in
your mouth so conversation was somewhat limited. Although, after the meal was
finished and tea or coffee served in the sitting room and where my father and
grandmother lit their cigarettes, my father Kensitas (as he collected the
coupons) and my grandmother Senior Service, my mother did not smoke, and the
world would be put to rights.
All the food was home
cooked by either my mother or grandmother. One of my abiding memories is of my
grandmothers homemade Cornish Pasty’s. They were cooked from chopped raw meat
and vegetables and were enormous but tasted wonderful. Mind you she did have an
advantage; she was actually Cornish being born in the west country! My
grandmother, my mother’s mother, came down from her home in central London and lived
with us from 1952 whilst my father was posted to Ceylon for two years. That was
the original plan but she stayed until her death in 1974. Another memory that
now comes to mind is her steamed bacon and onion suet pudding. Delicious!
One of the other things
that my parents would insist on was never to put your elbows on the table. I am
sure most households had the same rule, never bolt your food or stuff your
mouth full of food and never chew with your mouth open.
All this was good
practice for eating out but I really cannot remember ever going to a café, let
alone a restaurant with my parents. But I suppose that it was training for
later life!
Stay in touch
Peter
grseditor@gmail.com
Now take a look at Hancock and an Egg:-
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Now take a look at Hancock and an Egg:-
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You Write:
Jonathon Writes:-
Hi Peter
I was ruminating on our childhood
days at Solent Road Primary School here are some of my thoughts.
We used to walk to school from
Rectory Ave along Woodfield Avenue over Gillman Lane and on through the
Recreation Ground left down Farlington Ave and right into Solent Road wind,
rain or shine.....even snow. No shutting down of schools if it gets a bit too
cold for somebody's liking!!!!!
The school playground had houses
backing onto it and one of the owners was Arthur Pelley. He was a WW1 veteran I
seem to remember and a TocH buddy of both our Fathers'. I remember there used
to be very occasional fights between boys in that playground and everyone would
surround the pair baying"fight fight fight". One memorable fight took
place between my elder brother Christopher and someone who was shoving me
around. I think that was the first and only time as young boys that he ever
stood up for me. Later he was good to me in the Sixth Form when he helped me
become a Senator or Prefect just before he went up to Leicester University and
died in a tragic accident.
I remember the little
"tuck" shop across the road from the school, wasn't it Shaw's. I
vividly remember the wide range of inexpensive sweets and lollies on offer. One
of my favourites was the big block of rough honeycomb on a stick and chocolate
dipped. Only a penny. Also the penny flat slabs of bubble gum with a "space
card" in the wrapped offering. I collected everyone of those cards and
saved them for several years until our move to Ethiopia in 1958 when my Father
gave all my toys and possessions away. Not much a ten year old can do about
that is there!!!! My most grievous loss was a superb set six Meccano that I had
won in a competition in my Mum's weekly magazine as a six year old. It was that
Meccano set that started me on my eventual Engineering career.
Our teachers were strict and I have
written about that before. But caning for very trivial offences was extremely
common. Now most of those teachers would be imprisoned, the code of behaviour
has changed beyond recognition.
Mary Writes:-
Despite this, many teenagers acquired one, taking them
to parties, and purchasing the latest singles (45s). Did we ever
!
I loved my
record player which was a Bush, a present on my 14th birthday from my parents.
There were also a few records. One was Shirley Bassey & she sang "Kiss
me Honey, Honey" which was considered quite racy at the time. My father
& I spent many a happy time in Weston Harts choosing records, which became
the gift to buy when you were given money for birthdays & Christmas. I wish
I still had my record player as Griff has. I can understand how he treasures
it. Whilst I was living away my mother gave it to a young lad who lived near
us. Apparently he took it apart to see how it was made!!! I wasn`t best
pleased. Take care everyone, Mary
Griff writes:
Dansette Part 2
The very first Dansette model available in 1950/51 was
the Plus~a~Gram and the Senior, these were very
expensive and many teens and adults could not afford record players until
later. It retailed at 33 guineas which
today would be approximately £800. Imagine that!
In 1962 a Dansette Popular 4 speed record player would be sold for 11
guineas in Curry's and Weston Harts in Portsmouth and for another 2
guineas you could opt for the Bermuda with a 4 speed autochanger with
legs. (see picture)
Many Dansettes were sold in December as Christmas
presents, or as in my case a 16th Birthday present but the majority
would be purchased with the then readily available "hire purchase". I
know for a fact Curry's Hire Purchase was 33% down and the rest paid in weekly
or monthly instalments because my Mum did exactly that back in 1962.
In 1958, Dansette started producing the Dansette Junior and later
the De Luxe designed to appeal to the teenagers who would take them to and from
parties.
By the late 1960s, recording techniques were becoming more
sophisticated. Stereo had been virtually ignored until then and there was a
change of direction from the 45's to the LP. Customers began to seek more
modern Hi-Fi systems.
Inevitably the market dried up for record players. Imports from
Japan took over the market with cut-throat competition and the company went
into liquidation. Dansette production ended in December 1969, following the
introduction of relatively cheap and efficient Japanese and other Far Eastern
imported Hi-Fi equipment.
During the years 1950-1969/70 over one million Dansettes were sold.
Many of these record players still remain in use but have been
refurbished, there are now many firms in the UK who restore these players as
well as independent engineers who restore the players as a hobby. There is
nothing you cannot buy to refurbish a Dansette and other record players but the
companies who do the professional restoration will charge well over the £100
mark for a basic refurbished working model and up to £400+ for a totally
guaranteed restored to a new one and the selling/buying market is very strong
as well. The most sought after Dansette model is the red and white record
player. Wishing that you kept your Dansette record player now? lol
I hope you enjoyed my look into the past of how we enjoyed our music as
teenagers but I can assure you I am no dinosaur as I have Spotify and Alexa
around the house but it's just not the same as hearing the comforting clunk of
the record auto changer spindle dropping another 45 onto the playing deck and
the hiss of the stylus needle as it rested gently onto the record before you
heard the music play is it.
Take Care......And Regards to Everyone Melvyn (Griff)
Griffiths.
News and Views:
On 1st May 1960-1965
On 01/01/1960 the number one single was Do you Mind - Anthony
Newley and the number one album was South Pacific Soundtrack. The top rated TV show
was Wagon Train (ITV) and the box office smash was Psycho. A pound of today's
money was worth £13.68 and Burnley were on the
way to becoming the Season's Division 1 champions. The big news story of the
week was Soviet Union shoots down American U2 spy plane flown by pilot CG
Powers
On 01/01/1961 the number one single was Wooden Heart - Elvis
Presley and the number one album was GI Blues - Elvis Presley. The top
rated TV show was No Hiding Place
(AR) and the box office smash was One Hundred and One Dalmations. A pound of today's
money was worth £13.25 and Tottenham Hotspur were on the way to becoming the
Season's Division 1 champions. The big news story of the week was Castro makes Cuba Socialist.
On 01/01/1962 the number one single was Wonderful Land - The
Shadows and the number one album was Blue Hawaii - Elvis Presley. The top rated TV
show was Coronation Street (Granada) and the box office
smash was Lawrence of Arabia. A pound of today's
money was worth £12.89 and Ipswich
Town were on the way to
becoming the Season's Division 1 champions.
On 01/01/1963 the number one single was How Do
You Do It? - Gerry & the Pacemakers and the number one album was Summer
Holiday - Cliff Richard & the Shadows. The top rated TV show was
Conservative Party Political Broadcast (all channels) and the box office smash
was The Great Escape. A pound of today's money was worth £12.64 and Everton
were on the way to becoming the Season's Division 1 champions. The big news
story of the day was Churchill retired.
On 01/01/1964 the number one single was A World
Without Love - Peter & Gordon and the number one album was With the Beatles
- The Beatles. The top rated TV show was Coronation Street (Granada) and the box office
smash was Dr Strangelove. A pound of today's money
was worth £12.24 and Liverpool were on the way
to becoming the Season's Division 1 champions.
On 01/01/1965 the number one single was Ticket to Ride - The
Beatles and the number one album was Beatles For Sale - The Beatles. The top rated TV show was
Coronation Street
(Granada) and the box office smash was The Sound of Music. A pound of
today's money was worth £11.69 and Manchester
United were on the way to becoming the Season's Division 1 champions.